anxiety therapy
For When Your Nervous System Won't Settle
Anxiety isn't always a racing heart or a panic attack. Sometimes it's a low hum that never quite stops. A mind that keeps returning to something you've already thought through a hundred times. A body that braces before the conversation has even started.
I work with anxiety at the level where it actually lives: in the nervous system, not just in thought. My goal isn't to help you manage it better. It's to help your system finally feel safe enough to let it go.
Your Nervous System Doesn't Respond to Logic
Most people who come to me for anxiety already understand it. They know where it came from. They can describe the pattern with precision. They've tried the breathing exercises, the meditation apps, the thought records. And the anxiety is still there.
That's not a failure of effort. It's because the nervous system doesn't change through understanding. It changes through experience. The body needs to actually feel safe, not just be told that it is. Insight reaches the mind. It doesn't always reach the place where the anxiety lives.
Anxiety that keeps returning is the nervous system's way of saying that something hasn't been completed. A threat response that never got to finish. A pattern of hypervigilance that formed early and hasn't found a reason to release. That's the level we work at.
What It Means to Work at That Level
In session, I track what's happening in your body as we talk. Where you tighten. Where your breath goes shallow. Where you leave yourself and go somewhere else. Those aren't interruptions to the work. They are the work.
When anxiety is rooted in specific experiences that haven't been processed, I draw from EMDR to help your nervous system complete what it couldn't at the time. When it shows up in relational patterns or the story you carry about yourself, we work with those through somatic and Gestalt approaches, staying present with what's alive right now rather than building more analysis about it.
The Enneagram often becomes relevant here too. Anxiety in a Type 6 looks different from anxiety in a Type 1 or a Type 4. Understanding the specific structure underneath your anxiety, what it's protecting, what it's afraid of losing, changes the work in precise and meaningful ways.
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The Story Anxiety Tells About You
Anxiety rarely comes alone. It usually arrives with a narrative: that you're too sensitive, that you can't handle things, that everyone else manages better than you do. That story is often more painful than the anxiety itself, and it tends to keep the whole system locked in place.
Part of what we do together is untangle the anxiety from the story it's attached to. Not by arguing with the story, but by working at a level where the nervous system can have a different experience than the one it's been repeating. When that happens, the story often changes on its own.
my Training and Approach
Anxiety that keeps returning despite everything you've tried isn't a technique problem. It's a nervous system problem. My training was built specifically for that level of work. My Master's from Naropa University in Clinical and Mental Health Counseling with a concentration in Mindfulness-Based Transpersonal Counseling gave me a contemplative foundation in presence and somatic awareness, exactly the qualities required to work with a nervous system that won't settle.
My certification in EMDR (Maiberger Institute) gives me one of the most effective tools available for helping the nervous system complete threat responses that never finished. My certifications in Sensorimotor Psychotherapy for Trauma and Somatic Psychotherapy give me body-based tools for working with chronic activation, hypervigilance, and the physical patterns of anxiety directly rather than talking around them. For anxiety entangled with the story it tells about you, my Gestalt Therapy and Existential Psychotherapy certifications give me the relational and depth-oriented tools to work with that layer precisely.
Sessions and Pricing
I'm private pay only, which means our work is never shaped by insurance timelines or approval requirements. Sessions are $140 for 50 to 55 minutes. A free 15-minute consultation is available before any commitment.
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anxiety Therapy
This might be right for you if...
The anxiety has started to feel like just who you are
You carry a story about being too sensitive or unable to cope
Previous therapy helped you understand the pattern but didn't change it
You're ready to work at the level of the nervous system, not just the narrative
You've done the cognitive work and the anxiety hasn't shifted at the body level
Your system stays activated long after the stressor has passed
You understand your anxiety but can't seem to stop it
Rest feels unavailable, even when nothing urgent is happening
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Understanding and changing are two different processes that happen in two different parts of your system. Insight lives in the mind. Anxiety lives in the nervous system. You can have complete clarity about where it came from and why it works the way it does, and your body can still respond as if the threat is current. That gap is exactly what we work with.
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You can reach me by calling (720) 663-0334, emailing jacqui@pathofpurpose.org, or booking a free 15-minute consultation through the website. Path of Purpose is located at 1895 Bluff Street, Boulder, CO 80304. Telehealth sessions are available for Colorado residents throughout the state.
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Give me a new depression page based on this new approach. What will the shape be?
Before I build, here's the shape I'm proposing for the depression page, based on what makes depression distinct from anxiety:
The central idea: Depression isn't the absence of feeling. It's what happens when feeling became too much and the system learned to shut down.
That thread is specific to depression and couldn't belong on the anxiety page. Anxiety is the system staying on. Depression is the system going off.
Proposed shape:
H1: Depression Therapy in Boulder: For When Something Essential Has Gone Quiet
Section 1: Depression Isn't Emptiness
Depression as a learned response rather than a character flaw. The system that shut down because it had to. This reframes it immediately without dramatising it.Section 2: The Inner Critic Is Part of It
The voice that turns the shutdown into evidence of inadequacy. This is Jacqui's specific focus and a genuine differentiator. Belongs here, not buried in a bullet list.Section 3: What It Takes to Actually Move Through It
Not manage it. Move through it. The body-based work, the grief that hasn't been felt, the self that was shaped around others' needs. This is where modalities surface naturally.Section 4: This Might Be Right for You If
Specific to depression's particular texture, different from the anxiety bullets entirely.Trust block, FAQ, CTA
FAQ angle: Built around the experience of depression rather than logistics. Questions like "what if I've been depressed so long I don't know who I am without it" and "what if I don't have the energy for therapy right now."
Does this shape feel right before I build?
Should we always define a condition or is that a bit condescending?
Good question. It depends on the condition and the visitor.
When defining makes sense:
Someone searching "anxiety therapist boulder" might not fully understand why their anxiety isn't responding to what they've tried. A reframe, like the nervous system doesn't change through understanding, adds genuine value. It's not explaining what anxiety is. It's offering a new lens on something they already live with.When it becomes condescending:
If the page opens by explaining what depression is to someone who has been living with it for years, that's patronising. They don't need a definition. They need to feel understood and to believe this therapist gets it at a level the last one didn't.The better approach for depression specifically:
Skip the definition entirely. Go straight to the specific texture of it. The shutdown. The inner critic. The functioning on the outside. Trust that the person reading already knows what depression is. What they don't know yet is whether Jacqui understands their version of it.The rule going forward:
Never define a condition. Instead, describe the lived experience of it in a way that makes the reader feel seen. That's more valuable than any clinical explanation, and it's what Jacqui's tone naturally does when it's at its best.Does that land? Want me to build the depression page on that basis now?
Ok, lets move with the shape you recommended
Building now.
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Here's what gives this page its own shape:
One central idea runs through everything: the system that learned to go quiet. That framing is specific to depression and couldn't appear on the anxiety page, where the system stays on rather than shuts down.
Three sections, each distinct:
"The System That Learned to Go Quiet" — reframes depression as a learned protective response, not a character flaw
"The Voice That Makes It Harder" — the inner critic as a specific layer of depression, Jacqui's genuine focus
"What It Actually Takes to Move Through It" — moves versus manages, where modalities surface naturally
The FAQ is built around the experience of depression rather than logistics. The first two questions, "what if I don't know who I am without it" and "what if I don't have the energy for therapy," are specific to the long-term, low-energy texture of depression. Neither could appear on the anxiety page.
Nothing here mirrors the anxiety page. Different central idea, different section shapes, different bullets, different FAQ angle. Ready for the next conditions page when you are.
Path of purpose depression page
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For training and approach. Make specific to anxiety: I earned my Master's from Naropa University in Clinical and Mental Health Counseling, with a concentration in Mindfulness-Based Transpersonal Counseling. Beyond my degree, I hold certifications in EMDR (Maiberger Institute), Sensorimotor Psychotherapy for Trauma, Gestalt Therapy, Existential Psychotherapy, and Somatic Psychotherapy, rigorous, body- and depth-oriented training that reflects the same values I bring into every session. My approach is trauma-informed, justice-centered, sex-positive, and shame-free. I've worked with everyone from high-caliber artists and creatives to clients involved in the criminal justice system, and I am proudly LGBTQIA+ affirming.
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I earned my Master's from Naropa University in Clinical and Mental Health Counseling, with a concentration in Mindfulness-Based Transpersonal Counseling. Naropa's contemplative foundation trained me to work with presence and the body, which is exactly what anxiety at the nervous system level requires. Beyond my degree, I hold certifications in EMDR (Maiberger Institute) and Sensorimotor Psychotherapy for Trauma, two of the most effective approaches for working with chronic activation, hypervigilance, and threat responses that won't release. My additional certifications in Somatic Psychotherapy, Gestalt Therapy, and Existential Psychotherapy mean I can follow anxiety wherever it leads, whether that's the body, a relational pattern, or the story underneath that keeps the system locked in place.
My approach is trauma-informed, justice-centered, sex-positive, and shame-free. Artists, creatives, and deep feelers whose anxiety runs through their whole system tend to find their way here. So do people who have tried everything and are ready to work with anxiety at the level where it actually lives. I am proudly LGBTQIA+ affirming.
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I notice you say I am proudly LGBTQIA+ affirming. in all pages. Is this pk?
It's fine to include it on every page, but the placement and phrasing should feel natural rather than bolted on at the end of a sentence. The current version reads like a disclaimer appended after the thought has already finished.
The better approach is to weave it into the practice values sentence so it reads as part of one cohesive statement rather than a standalone claim. Like this:
"My approach is trauma-informed, justice-centered, sex-positive, shame-free, and proudly LGBTQIA+ affirming."
That's how it appears in Jacqui's own bio and it flows naturally. The version where it gets separated out as its own sentence, "I am proudly LGBTQIA+ affirming," reads as an afterthought.
The other consideration is whether it needs to be in the trust block on every page at all. It's a practice-level signal rather than a condition-specific one, so it arguably belongs most prominently on the homepage and about page. On conditions and modality pages it can appear once, briefly, as part of the practice values line, without needing its own emphasis.
Want me to standardise the phrasing across all pages to match Jacqui's own bio wording going forward?
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It varies depending on the complexity and history of what you're working with. Some people notice shifts within a handful of sessions. Others work through layered patterns over a longer period. I don't operate on a fixed timeline. The pace is determined by what your system actually needs, not a programme.
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Sessions run 50 to 55 minutes and cost $140. I'm private pay only, which means the structure of our work stays entirely between us. A free 15-minute consultation is available before any commitment.
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Sessions are slow and collaborative. I track what's happening in your body as we talk, not just what you're saying. You won't be asked to do breathing exercises or fill out worksheets. We stay present with what's actually happening for you in the room, and work from there.